Today is Launch Day for The HerStories Project!


I am very excited to announce that today is Launch Day for The HerStories Project: Women Explore the Joy, Pain, and Power of Female Friendship, and that that I am one of 50 contributors to this new anthology, including a foreword from Jill Smokler of Scary Mommy! This collection of essays about women’s friendship, compiled by the wonderful and talented Jessica Smock and Stephanie Sprenger, is a reflection of just how important these relationships can be.

Jessica and Stephanie share their thoughts on their book: “All women’s friendships tell a story: these sacred bonds define us, and contain our history within walls that are both fragile and powerful. The girlfriend who held your hand during a time of intense grief. The best friend who broke your heart. The woman who helped you find your footing and retain your sanity as a mother. The friendship that turned toxic. The person you don’t think you could survive without. The bonds of female friendship are among the most essential and distinct of all relationships. The friendships in the life of a woman serve as mirrors, reflecting who she was, how she has evolved, and revealing what she needs and craves in her life. In this book, 50 women writers paint real pictures of friendship; in addition to paying homage to the beauty and power of their relationships, they share the gritty details of bitter friendship breakups and uncomfortable life transitions.”

My journey to become a contributor to this powerful book on friendship came about because of newly developed friendships that I have formulated since staring my blog eight months ago. Little did I know that I would find myself in an incredibly supportive community of women writers and bloggers. I met Jessica Smock through local writer, fellow contributor, and most importantly, friend and mentor, Nina Badzin. Nina introduced Jessica and I through twitter, and we proceeded to connect through email and phone conversations. We hit it off right away as we shared several parallel life experiences, as well as us each having a desire to write a book. Not long after we “met,” Jessica asked me if I would like to submit a story about friendship for a website that she and her friend, Stephanie Sprenger were in the process of developing. Stephanie also reached out to me in an authentic way, and I could tell that these two women were the real deal. I immediately jumped at the opportunity to be a part of something they were working on, and began thinking about powerful friendships that I have had/have in my life.

I sent the following email to Jessica:

“Jessica, thank you. I am honored that you asked me. The stories [that you and Stephanie have already posted] are amazing and I am not sure that I have a friendship story as powerful as those you have gathered but I will work to write something meaningful. The first thing that comes to mind is: My younger sister (and only sibling) is my best friend. Hands down. She knows me inside and out and loves me anyway. We were not very close growing up. I once threw a rock at her head…”

And Jessica responded,

“Hi, Julie.
You DEFINITELY have a great friendship story.  (You’re practically written it already!)  I have had a similar experience with my sister…”

And that is how my contribution to this book, “You and Me,” came to be, and how my friendship with Jessica continued to grow. I am honored to have my piece included in this compilation, and to be among the 50 women writers, many of whom I have had the opportunity to connect with via our blogs, twitter or facebook. I am beyond thrilled for Jessica and Stephanie, who have worked tirelessly to pull our voices together in this meaningful collection.

Please consider purchasing this book (or e-book) as a gift for the women in your life this holiday season. To learn more about the Her Stories Project and to purchase a copy of the book, head over to the The HerStories Project website. If you click on the CreateSpace purchase button and use this promo code: HK5T27Y3, you will receive $2 off each book you purchase.


  1. Stephanie Sprenger says:

    Julie, I love this post- so heartfelt! And of course I love your essay, too. I re-read it (for maybe the 14th time!) a few days ago and I still feel choked up when I read it. My brother and I are incredibly close, but I have always longed for a sister relationship. I was thrilled to have two girls, and I hope they experience the closeness you and your sister share. Thank you so much for lending your beautiful, articulate voice to our collection- we are grateful to have you!

    • Thank you, Stephanie! I am so grateful to you and Jessica for giving me this opportunity to share my story along side all the other powerful pieces of writing.This book is truly a treasured collection, and one that will profoundly impact every woman who reads it. I have enjoyed, and have been moved by all of the essays!

  2. It was such a deserving essay. And it’s so funny that when I read it I had never met your sister and now she and I keep running into each other everywhere. Really! So appreciate the mention here, and I’m sure this is only the first of other projects we’ll be part of together.

  3. I so love that your story starts with your friendship with your sister! I hope for the exact same closeness for my two girls! (Sans the rock, maybe! :))

    Happy pub day to you!

  4. Thank you, Galit, and Happy Pub Day to you too! I love the idea of the letter writing you did to five friends of yours. How wonderful and meaningful! And as far as your girls go, I do hope they skip the rock!

  5. Julie, I’m really looking forward to reading your essay in this book, along with all the others. xoxo

  6. What a beautiful post and makes me think so much of my sister. We are far apart in age (nearly a full 7 years) that growing up I was more like Mom #2 to her…which surprisingly she didn’t love?! 🙂 But now that we are peers, and age has evened out, it is such a special bond. But this makes me want to go hug her right now. Thank you. And honored to be published alongside you.

    • Thank you, Allison! I love that about you and your sister! My daughters are almost 10 years apart and my older one is for sure more like a mom to the younger one but I hope as they get older they will be close like you and your little sister! And I am honored to be published along side of you too!!

Leave a Reply

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss

Tim Ferriss's 4-Hour Workweek and Lifestyle Design Blog


life's a draft

writing at the table

writer & mother, feeding my dream and my family


Finding A Silver Lining Every Day

K.M. O'Sullivan

writer ~ blogger ~ unapologetic feminist mother

Shannon Day's Martinis & Motherhood

A site for martini-sipping moms...

The Hip Grandmother

There's a hip grandparent in all of us!

Watch Nonnie Write!

"It's gonna be a long, long journey, but I'm ready..."

The Waiting

Turns out, it's not the hardest part.

Mummy Kindness

Parenting. Honestly.


The unrehearsed, spontaneous, impromptu act of motherhood.

Nina Badzin's Blog

Writing, Reading, Parenting & More

A Happy Mess

Finding joy even if it kills me

Parenting And Stuff

Not a "how to be a great parent" blog

Sweet Child of Mine

How I lost my son to Guns 'N Roses

%d bloggers like this: